Both while i discuss softness, attitude, earnestness, and vulnerability I am these are them just like the response to just what We look for because the privileging out of stiffness, paradox, and you will diminished emotion. Gentleness falls under femme for my situation, and so sometimes I explore softer femme regarding difficult femme. I don’t think carefully and you can delicate femme exists towards a binary. Tough femme and you will softer femme are different, but they are perhaps not opposite. It overlap. We can not explore femme versus talking about one another hardness and you can gentleness. Already, there can be an evergrowing focus on gentleness, and i also believe so it scratching a departure throughout the previous importance towards firmness.